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You know you love me.
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I am afraid of getting older. I am afraid of getting married. Spare me from cooking three meals a day—spare me from the relentless cage of routine and rote. I want to be free… I want, I want to think, to be omniscient.
- Sylvia Plath written in 1949 at age 17. (via dontbesadlove)

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It’s just this strange thing I do where I allow myself to briefly fall in love with another human being that I see on a train, or the sidewalk, or in a warm café.
- Chelsea Fagan, Dear Beautiful Guys I Pass On The Street: I Love You (via kushandwizdom)

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“There’s a tremendous difference between alone and lonely. You could be lonely in a group of people. I like being alone. I like eating by myself. I go home at night and just watch a movie or hang out with my dog. I have to exert myself and really say, oh God, I’ve got to see my friends ‘cause I’m too content being by myself.” -Drew Barrymore

Wow ive seen this one hundred times and never knew it was her
I’ve been giving up on people easily. If they don’t call, if they don’t try— then I don’t. It’s not fair to lay the blame on them when I’m not calling either. I’m just as much at fault. I’ve got a lot of resentment for old friends— for letting me go without a fight. I just want someone to call and say “I miss you, how are you?” I just want to call someone and say “I miss you, I’m sorry.” I want to be brave enough to stay in one place.
- Unknown (via durianquotes)

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You were red. You liked me cause I was blue. You touched me and suddenly I was a lilac sky and you decided purple just wasn’t for you.
- colors.

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1. Listen to your mom, despite how much you think she doesn’t know what you’re going through. She does. She’s been there.
2. Shaving is optional.
3. Actions always speak louder than words.
4. Sex should be fun. If you’re not laughing, you’re doing it with the wrong person.
5. Life isn’t a movie.
6. Only wear what you feel comfortable in and not what’s in style at the time.
7. It’s much better to have a small group of good friends than a big group of fake ones.
8. Go skinny dipping.
9. Write things down. Your story is an important one.
10. Wear sunscreen.
11. If it was meant to work, it would have. Don’t force something that’s dead to keep growing.
12. Take care of your feet.
13. Like what you like.
14. Listen to your grandparents’ stories from the 50s. Watch their eyes light up as they take a trip down memory lane.
15. A good pair of jeans never fails.
16. Men mature slower than women. Just keep that in mind.
17. Everybody has celilute.
18. Don’t allow yourself to be used as a rebound. If he didn’t care about you then, what makes you think he’s cares now? Stay wise.
19. Always carry tampons. You never know.
20. If words fail, make a playlist.
21. Stop reserving places in your life for people who don’t want to be there.
22. Study. You won’t regret it.
23. You won’t enjoy that salad as much as you’ll enjoy the pizza so don’t kid yourself.
24. Watch the news. Know the world you live in.
25. Apologise when you should.
26. Wear dresses that are tight enough to show you’re a woman but loose enough to show you’re a lady.
27. Try and sneak into a bar with a fake ID. Hey, you’re only young once.
28. Sing loud and proud.
29. First dates are exciting. Enjoy them.
30. Dream.
31. If you want a bikini body, put a bikini on your body. There.
32. Don’t be afraid of change.
33. A good laugh and a long sleep can cure pretty much anything.
34. If you know in your heart that something is worth fighting for, then fight. And don’t give up until you win.
35. Make a scrapbook.
36. If you’re not losing friends, you’re not growing up.
37. Listen.
38. If you fail, try again.
39. A leather jacket will always help you to feel more badass.
40. Never hide your true feelings.
41. Be blind to gender, race, sexuality, religion, disability and difference.
42. Walk along the beach at midnight.
43. The only way to get answers is to ask questions.
44. Drive carefully when it snows.
45. Put your phone away at a concert and enjoy it. Nobody on Twitter cares that you’re there.
46. Beauty is a state of mind, not state of body.
47. Try your best not to hate the girl who flirts with the guy you like. Don’t allow somebody else’s feelings to turn yours bitter.
48. Buy bras that actually fit.
49. Collect something.
50. Really think before sending intimate photos to someone. Or at least just hide your face.
51. Dance.
52. A great red lipstick will always be a worthy investment.
53. If he tries something on the first date, know that he only asked you out for one reason. And don’t allow it.
54. Be kind to your skin.
55. Nobody is perfect, so stop trying to be.
56. Spend time with your siblings. They’re going to be your friends for life.
57. Be the friend you wish you had.
58. A good cry is good therapy.
59. Stop hitting the snooze button. Seize the day.
60. Don’t try to change somebody who doesn’t want to change. You’re only wasting your own time.
61. Watch ‘Titanic’.
62. Spend time with the family at Christmas.
63. Enjoy young love while you can. There will never come another time when you will be more honest and vulnerable and thrilled at everything that’s new.
64. Don’t cry over a haircut. It will grow.
65. Keep other people’s secrets.
66. No one has it all, so learn to make the best of what you do have while you have it. And take good care of it.
67. Write.
68. Try not to bite your nails.
69. Stop comparing yourself to other people. Just stop it.
70. Leave a summer fling in the summer.
71. It’s okay to not know what the hell you’re doing with your life yet.
72. Text your mom at least twice on a night out to reassure her that you’re fine. She’s a mom. She worries.
73. Yoga is good for the soul.
74. Take pride in your achievements.
75. The end of a relationship doesn’t always have to be someone’s fault or a rejection. Sometimes it’s just the end of something that wasn’t right for you.
76. Smart is sexy.
77. A jealous friend is more dangerous than a blatant enemy.
78. Realise that “texting someone” isn’t enough. It’s fun at first but you deserve to have it go somewhere. So if all of your conversations are said with your thumbs, delete his number.
79. That spot on your forehead really doesn’t matter.
80. Not every debate needs your input. Sometimes you have to just take a deep breath and walk away.
81. Pour your own drinks.
82. Raise your hand is class. Who cares if you get the answer wrong?
83. Forget what you want and remember what you deserve.
84. Take your makeup off at night. Trust me.
85. Sometimes people just suck.
86. Don’t be afraid of removing toxic people from your life. It’s not worth having people around you who do nothing but bring you down.
87. Eat what you want.
88. Try not to be late.
89. Write up a good resume. Spend time checking for grammar and spelling mistakes. Toot your own horn. Make the effort to get somewhere.
90. Trust your instincts.
91. If somebody can’t do something, they will try and tell you that you can’t either. Don’t you dare listen. Prove them wrong.
92. Pick a tea.
93. Put your family first.
94. First impressions are important but not always accurate.
95. See other people’s points of view, too.
96. Life is unpredictable. Seek change and understand that things may not always work out the way you anticipated. Roll with it.
97. Failure is success when you learn from it.
98. Breathe.
99. You are more than enough.
100. The fresh start you’re waiting for can arrive at any minute.
101. This is only the beginning.
- Things You Should Know As A Teenager/Before You Turn 20 (Part II)

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“They didn’t deserve her. No high school boy did. She was better than that, Sylvia knew, bigger and better and ready to shed her skin like a snake.”—Emma Straub, The Vacationers
I’ve always loved the idea of not being what people expect me to be.
- Dita Von Teese (via bl-ossomed)

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